Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.
Good morning, readers. Today is poetry day on the blog. It’s always fun to play with words and that is what poetry is – just playing with words. When our children are little, and they are trying to communicate, we often say to them, “Use your words.” Today I say, “Play with your words.” Here is what came out of my own word play today (Have a wonderful rest of your weekend!! Stay in the moment and savor it all.):
When you were my baby girl, I fondly gazed at your tiny toes,
And when you were a little girl, I dressed you up in bows.
When you were in middle school, I soothed your highs and lows,
And when you were in high school, we loved shopping for your clothes,
Watching you graduate yesterday, my face glows and my heart grows,
You are a golden girl who will have a wonderful life, this your mother knows.
I recently said to my husband, “I feel like we are about to cross the finish line of a major marathon.” He said to me, “Well, we have been parenting for 26 years.” (Our eldest son turned 26 in April, and for those of you non-runners like me, who for the longest time thought that those stickers on cars that state “26.2” perhaps referred to a Bible verse, the stickers actually refer to the fact that a marathon is 26.2 miles long.)
Today is my daughter’s high school graduation. She is the youngest of our four children and she is our only girl. She has opted to start college in the summer, so in about a month, this empty nest thing will truly be our reality. When I am not feeling curiously numb about this graduation ceremony soon to happen, I feel this:
and all of this is happening in rapid fire succession, or perhaps these emotions are actually happening all at once. I really don’t know. Some experiences cannot be put into words, as hard as I try.
This is what I do know, though. This marathon has been completely and totally worth it. This marathon has been, and will always be, the most important, meaningful race of my life. I honestly had no way of preparing for what it would mean to be tasked with getting four amazing souls safely from babyhood into their adulthoods, but I kept my stride. I stumbled here and there, but I always kept on going. I caught my breath, and I kept on going. I kept the pace. And I held the hand of my husband, throughout it all, and so together, today, we will cross this finish line completely tied. It won’t even be a photofinish. We will do this crossing over the finish line together, completely as one, just like we did at the starting line, a little over 26 years ago.
“Of all the races, there is no better stage for heroism than a marathon.” – George Sheehan
“Ask yourself: ‘Can I give more?’ The answer is usually: ‘Yes’.”– Paul Tergat
“When you run the marathon, you run against the distance, not against the other runners and not against the time.” -Haile Gebrselassie
Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.
