Antiquities

It struck me the other day that we go all over the world in order to see ancient things. We have museums full of antiquities. We stand in awe of unbelievably ornate and intricate churches and buildings that have strongly, and dependably existed throughout centuries. We gape at ancient works of art, and handle them so gingerly and respectfully. We muse that all of these venerable creations are unrepeatable and priceless. These antiquities hold so much of our history, and so, we in turn hold these relics and monuments in the highest of esteem. The fact is, most of the most beautiful things in our world, both human creations and quite frankly, also the things of nature, are incredibly old.

Why then, don’t we hold the same esteem for our elders? Why don’t we respect and honor and feel grateful for the aging of our own selves? We love the older artifacts because they are a testament to their ability to hold on, and to regally exist for a long period of time. These older things are the basis for everything that has come after them. Our own older selves are an accumulation of many years of life, and experiences, and the wisdom that hopefully is that outcome of these years and happenings.

Treat and respect your aging self, and the aging selves of others, as you do these lovely museum pieces that you have visited throughout your lifetime. You are a one-and-only, a one-of-a-kind masterpiece whom the world is blessed to experience. As you age, you are only more precious. Know this, and know this about others, and hold your head up regally and gratefully. Knowingly allow the wisdom of your years to glow serenely for all of those around you to catch their breath in awe of your beauty, and of your grace, and of your inherent knowledge of so many different eras in time.

Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.

Exhibits

I have to get out early this morning for some appointments, so today, I am going to share some gems, from one of my treasure troves of other people’s thoughts which have sparked thought and reflection in me. I have always said that I wanted this blog to be a small museum of thoughts/ideas/reflections/perspectives. These might make for some good journal prompts for your own writing?! Here are some exhibits:

“You couldn’t heal because you kept pretending you weren’t hurt.” – Wise Connector, Twitter

“The saddest aspect of life now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.” – Isaac Asimov

“Whatever it is you are seeking, won’t come in the form you are expecting.” – Haruki Murakami

“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.” – Maya Angelou

“A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because its trust is not on the branch, but on its own wings.” – Native Red Cloud, Twitter

“Time you enjoyed wasting, was not wasted.” – John Lennon

“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.”– Rumi

Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.

We Are Open 24/7

Welcome to Adulting – Second Half, a warm, cozy, intimate museum which lovingly and thoughtfully, holds an ever-growing collection of thoughts and ideas, which provokes more thoughts and ideas, and also safely holds the emotions that flow from these unique thoughts. I am the curator of interesting ideas, that come from all over, for this lovely, little museum. Luckily, our museum has been able to remain open every single day, even throughout this horrid pandemic. Our museum is open and free to the public, and the public has always been respectful and kind when visiting. I like to think that the energy in our museum envelopes its visitors in love, and in comfort, and inclusiveness, and in curiosity, and in wonder, and in knowingness, and in validation and in security. It seems to attract good and wise people. We have cherished regular visitors who come almost every single day to Adulting – Second Half, and we have cherished fleeting visitors who are curious, but find their reading/thought/emotion preferences, elsewhere. And that’s good. Everyone should visit all different curations of thought. It is the only way to figure out what really speaks to the deepest part of oneself. Good museums should evoke wonder, possibility, longingness, and desire for adventures. Good museums should make you want more of what life has to offer. Good museums should make you more interested in yourself and what makes you tick. Good museums should make you want more.

Today’s featured exhibit comes from Norma Kamali, the famous fashion designer who created the infamous red bathing suit that Farrah Fawcett donned in “that poster”, among many other beautiful and functional clothing creations. (on an aside, who has ever had a better smile than Farrah Fawcett?? Smiles like hers, light up ballrooms.) Normal Kamali is 75 years young. She looks like she is in her forties, and she can still do the splits. And she also, has a fabulous smile. I am in the middle of reading her new book entitled, I Am Invincible. Last night, this quote, from this book, popped out for me:

“What works through the ages, always works.”

Isn’t that a lovely and true exhibit of thought? In a time period of history, when we are flying through technological advances, like we are on a high speed roller coaster, it is so refreshing to spend time being with, and loving, and appreciating the tried and the true. I think that Norma Kamali described “timeless” perfectly with her statement. Healthy living always comes down to eating wholesome foods, exercising, surrounding yourself with positive people and experiences, and getting enough rest. That fact has never changed. Nature is a salve to our souls. That fact has never changed. There is so much mystery surrounding living a human life, that is yet to be explained, and that is what really keeps us so captivated by it all. That fact has never changed. In the end, all of our quests, and all of our doings, and all of our creations, are all done in the spirit of searching for the feeling of Love, and the funny thing is, we’ve had it all along. We are Love. Our lives are often spent as a search back to the very core of ourselves which is Love, and yet Love has never left us. That fact has never changed. Love works now. Love worked all throughout history, and Love will work forever more. If I were to add to our exhibit, I would make it look like this:

“Love works through the ages, Love always works.”

Thank you so much for coming to visit Adulting – Second Half. Please stay as long as you like, and enjoy all of our past exhibits. Please come again to visit, any time, day or night. We are open 24/7. Your presence has added to the wonderful energy here, and I am so grateful for everything that you bring to our little museum of thoughts and ideas. Your Comments are always welcome. As a token of appreciation for your visitation today, please accept our daily mantra, and apply it generously to your life, and to the lives of others:

Are you passing on love, or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.