Complimentary

This is one of the Christmas presents one of my sons got for me. They are called “complimentary pens.” I adore them. First of all, I must confess that I’m a pen hoarder/hound. I have hundreds of pens. My husband is concerned that I may be addicted to pens. And the crazy thing is, I feel sick if I lose even one of my pens. For instance, I lent one of my pens to a woman at a workshop late last year and I didn’t have the guts to ask for it back. I mean it’s only a pen after all, right? It was a nice pen, though, and it came from a neat boutique hotel that my husband and I stayed in when we went to the Florida Panhandle. But I didn’t ask for it back, because it was a complimentary pen from the hotel. And also, a pen is a nice, inexpensive thing to share with people. And compliments are also thoughtful things to share. The truth is, I wish I had given a compliment to this woman, instead of my pen. I lamented about this little saga to my daughter over the holidays, and my ever unflappable, practical daughter said, “Mom, why don’t you just carry some pens in your purse that you don’t mind giving away?”

I might buy some more sets of these complimentary pens and they can be my giveaways when someone needs a pen. Then, I will be giving away not only a nice pen, but also a lovely compliment.

Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.

2 thoughts on “Complimentary”

  1. Kelly,
    Loved this post this morning!
    I join you in being a ‘pen-aholic’. While moving, my husband and son had to box up my office while I was already in Florida, (something I dreaded them doing…because I knew they would undercover my addiction.). After uncovering the multi stashes of pens, my husband called me and said, ’ if there is an award for the person who has the most pens…You’d win!’ So I share in your addiction! 😊
    And I, like you, hate when I lose one…especially a favorite.
    Get this…my niece is also a ‘pen-aholic’ and we were talking one day and I asked her what her favorite pen is…and amazingly so, she named the same exact pen as I consider my favorite. The TUL blue ballpoint fine tip pen. I thought that was amazing for the all the pens we owned…(Unfortunately they do not make the fine tip anymore. 😔)
    Anyway, had to share that little story.
    Your post added a little whimsy to my day!
    ✍️

    1. Yay! I’m not alone. Maybe we’ll see each other at Pensaddicts Anonymous meeting some day 😉 My all time favorite pens right now are these Kokeshi Doll pens I got recently in a Japanese grocery store in NJ. They are adorable and they write so nicely!

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