I was reminded recently of an excellent, clarifying question to ask yourself about a situation that you feel muddled and conflicted about. It is a question that will help you to get really clear on your own deepest desires. This is not to say that this should be the only criteria when making major decisions, but it gives you a starting point as to pointing you to what you really want, and helps you to go from there. Here is the question:
“What would you do if it was only possible for you to take your own happiness into account?”
Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.
Here is the question of the day from 3000 Questions About Me:
1910. What is the most expensive thing you have ever lost?
That is an excellent starting point, Kelly! (Good morning.) I’m passing it along to my babies.
Isn’t it, Gail? It is a keeper!