Tuesday’s Tidbits

+ This is for my friends and family, up north. I do miss seeing and experiencing the beauty and the serenity and the quiet of blankets of freshly fallen snow. Our eldest son lives up north. He just sent us a picture from his back balcony. There’s a large house behind his apartment building that is painted a bright Kelly green. It is a good reminder that there is always the green of new growth hidden under the blankets of stillness and solitude.

+ On X yesterday, the Wiseconnector posted this: “Someone said, ‘A lot of people struggle with sleep because sleep requires peace.’ ” I believe that peace is extremely helpful for sleep. Inner peace, or else utter exhaustion that finally leads to pure surrender, is what helps us to get a good night’s sleep. Perhaps this means that it is total surrender that is truly equal to peace?? Another quote that I read recently said this: “Accept the unacceptable and the unacceptable ceases to exist.”

+ On the eve of Valentine’s Day I got to thinking about the wonderful word of “our”. “Our” denotes the things that we share and enjoy with others. I have so many “ours” with my husband. Our marriage, our family, our friends, our home, our dogs, our vacations, our dinners, our shows, our memories . . . . . I have a lot of “ours” with a lot of different people in my life. Think of all of the “ours” you have in your own life. “Our” means that we share a common love, time, appreciation and experience with a lot of the same things, and a lot of the same people. At work, you have “our” workplace, “our” goals, “our” lunchroom. . . . . With your friends you have “our” other friends, “our” good times shared, “our” inside jokes. . . . With your pets you have “our” walk time, “our” cuddle time, “our” favorite spots to be together in the house . . . . Friends, we have this time together at “our” blog. You have made this blog “ours” by validating it with your presence, your consideration, your time, your kindness, and your thoughtful comments. I love you. I appreciate you. I am so happy that you are part of one of my own “ours.” Think of some of your other “ours.” We don’t live life in a vacuum. We are all interconnected. Even your community has “our” parks and “our” grocery stores and “our” schools and “our” firefighters . . . . No one is alone.

Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.

Here is the question of the day from 3000 Questions About Me:

1672. What still amazes you? (The first two things that popped into my head the minute I saw this question are dolphins and sunsets.)

4 thoughts on “Tuesday’s Tidbits”

  1. So many lovely thoughts today in your post, Kelly! The snow and kindness, the surety of new life beneath the snow, and the word “our.” It’s such a small word, one I’ve never given much thought to. But, wow, when you shed your light on it this morning, it became SUCH a beautiful word! Thank you for once again opening my eyes.
    BTW: my husband and I did take the “3000 Unique Questions” book on our road trip and he actually enjoyed it! It’s not something he would normally engage in. But he did, and it passed the time. TY

    1. Awww, this comment makes me so happy, Gail! Thank you for being such a wonderful part of “our” blog! 🙂

  2. Kelly,
    Great thing to consider “our”!
    In a way, comforting….that we live in a world where can “our” and belong. It further confirms that we are not alone!

    Your question of the day:
    What still amazes me?
    Flowers, their beauty and detail to perfection.
    The ocean and how it changes
    People and their amazing ability to show love and goodness to others and the joy and changes that it brings.

    Thank you for the warm and cozy thoughts.

Comments are closed.