Decide and Move On

I’ve been noticing a phenomenon in myself and others a lot lately. We make a decision or we place a boundary, but then we explain our decision ad nauseum, to anyone who is listening range. We extol on why our decision was “right” or necessary, but by doing that, it seems to take away from the confidence of our decision/boundary. Sometimes we harangue so much about our situation, that it makes me wonder if we would be better off never making the decision or boundary to begin with, because the situation is obviously still eating us up, and taking up a lot of our time, peace, and mindspace.

When I was younger I was better about making a decision and putting the rest of it in the rearview mirror. I had confidence in myself that no matter what I decided, I would be able to handle the outcome, and be better for it. When I was younger, I better understood that there are no “perfect” solutions and most problems can be solved in many different ways. I didn’t need the 100 percent approval rate, that I sometimes think that I am vying for now.

I think that it’s odd that the confidence in my decision making has abated a bit in me. I suppose that youthful optimism, energy, and carefreeness wanes with time and experience. But that’s a shame, because I’m older now and there’s a lot less time to waste. My whole life has been a series of daily decisions that have worked out quite nicely for me. And even when I have gotten off track, I’ve used my decision making skills to get back on the best leg of my journey going forward. It’s best to make a decision and roll with it. If it ends up being a poor decision, more decisions can be made to move forward in a different direction. Lamenting a decision just keeps one stuck in neutral.

“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.”– Phil McGraw  

You cannot make progress without making decisions.” Jim Rohn

“Life is filled with difficult decisions, and winners are those who make them.”– Dan Brown 

“A real decision is measured by the fact that you’ve taken a new action. If there’s no action, you haven’t truly decided.”– Anthony Robbins

“Don’t mourn over your bad decisions. Just start overcoming them with good ones.”– Joyce Meyer

“When possible make the decisions now, even if action is in the future. A revised decision usually is better than one reached at the last moment.”– William B. Given

Are you passing on love or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love.

The Day of Miracles

In astrological circles, today is the luckiest day of the year. Today, the sun is in a conjunction with Jupiter, the biggest, boldest, badass luckiest planet in our solar system. Ironically, this conjunction did not happen in 2020. The last time this conjunction occurred was December 27, 2019. It is believed that today is a wonderful day to manifest more of what you want in your own life.

In my experience, the best way to manifest more amazing, incredible miracles in your own life, is to swell with happiness and gratefulness, while counting your countless blessings, already surrounding you. Here are a few beautiful miracles that most of us probably share: family, friends, flowers, fruit, fragrance, fits of laughter, fabulous food, fancy cupcakes, funny fun stuff, fondue (this is just the “f”s) . . . . It is not my onus to make your Blessings list, but it is yours. It is also my experience that when I start listing and thinking about all of the amazing blessings that have occurred, and are occurring, in my own life, I get so swelled with happiness and peace and awe and love and thankfulness, that I often forget that my initial purpose for writing my blessings list, was to ask for even more miracles. Don’t think that asking for more blessings in life is selfish (which often happens when you see how much you have already been abundantly blessed with) The beauty of it all, is that we live in an ever expanding Universe that loves to create blessings. Our Universe loves creation. Our Universe is Creation. There is an abundance of everything for everybody, if we let it happen in the purest, most grateful expectancy of Love for all of us.

Are you passing on love, or are you passing on pain? Heal your pain and pass on love. 

“An abundance mentality springs from internal security, not from external rankings, comparisons, opinions, possessions, or associations.”- Stephen Covey

“Abundance is about being rich, with or without money.”- Suze Orman

“If you look at what you have in your life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”- Oprah Winfrey

“True abundance is feeling worthy enough to believe beyond what you can see. Expect miracles and they will manifest.”- Sarah Prout

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.”- Tony Robbins